From James
Dean to James Bond to George Clooney (pre-Amal), girls have always had a soft
spot for bad boys. And now science knows why. Recent research has found that
men who have vain and somewhat er, well, psychopathic tendencies usually get
more dates than the average male. Wondering what’s up with that? Well, here’s
why.
1.
They’re more attractive It’s not
your imagination bad boys really are ridiculously good looking. Research has
found that people with so-called ‘dark’ personality traits such as narcissism,
psychopathy, and Machiavellianism otherwise known as the ‘dark triad’ of
personality traits are more physically attractive than others. The study by
Nicholas Holtzman and Michael Strube of Washington University in St. Louis
found that narcissists, unsurprisingly, are better at making themselves look
physically appealing. Which explains why it’s definitely not a coincidence that
bad boys have both an amazing wardrobe and amazing hair they work hard at it.
Additionally, those within the dark triad were found to be, “more likeable and
had more confident body language, and more attractive facial expressions,” than
their counterparts. In short, a bad boy make a darn good first impression. This
works well in his favor because, according to the research, when we find
someone super hot, we tend to assume they’re also smart, kind, and confident
(even if it isn’t true).
No wonder
bad boys are so irresistible.
2. They’re more fun From motorcycles to
daredevil trips, bad boys know how to have a good time. A 2016 study conducted
at the Hospital Clinic of Barcelona showed that a number of women were
attracted to bad boy types because they were considered captivating. “While
they are selfish, rule-breaking, imprudent, and rebellious, they are also
brave, temerarious, independent, and self-reliant and they live frantic,
galvanizing lives,” said lead researcher Fernando Gutiérrez. He added that this
behavior could function as “a signal that the subject has such good genetic
quality and condition as to live dangerously without suffering harm.” The study
went on to say those traits included in the dark triad, such as neuroticism and
impulsiveness, “are not being weeded out by natural selection and actually may
confer an evolutionary advantage.” Therefore ‘nice’ guys with their reliably
structured existence just can’t compete with their wild bad boy counterparts
who apparently have nine lives to boot it’s evolution’s fault.
3.
It’s hormonal If you find yourself ogling the bad
boy at the bar, you can blame your ovaries for that. According to research
published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology back in 2012,
women, in the week of ovulation, “delude themselves into thinking that the s*xy
bad boys will become devoted partners and better dads,” said study researcher
Kristina Durante of The University of Texas at San Antonio. “When looking at
the sexy cad through ovulation goggles, Mr. Wrong looked exactly like Mr.
Right.” That means, during a certain time of the month, women can’t help but be
attracted to the bad boy. (Just another thing to blame your baby box for.) As
much as bad boys are downright hypnotizing, it’s important to note that their
charming ways quickly wear out. Although bad boys find it relatively easy to
begin new relationships, research says that, over time, they find it difficult
to maintain their mesmerizing first impression. In fact, they’re noted to be
selfish, cold, and arrogant pretty much the opposite of who you thought they
were. (Just be careful because it could take several weeks before your bad boy
exposes his true self. That’s because people with dark personality traits are
skilled at keeping their unpleasant side hidden.) Bottom line: Bad boys are
great for a fling, and it’s only natural to be attracted to them. (It’s
science.) But if you’re looking for a long-term relationship go for the nice
guy.
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